{"id":22011,"date":"2021-11-26T01:25:53","date_gmt":"2021-11-26T01:25:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/?p=22011"},"modified":"2023-08-02T11:22:17","modified_gmt":"2023-08-02T11:22:17","slug":"should-i-ask-why-someone-is-on-tinder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/should-i-ask-why-someone-is-on-tinder\/","title":{"rendered":"Should\u200c \u200cI\u200c \u200cAsk\u200c \u200cWhy\u200c \u200cSomeone\u200c \u200cIs\u200c \u200cOn\u200c \u200cTinder?\u200c | For A Relationship Or Hookup?"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:56.133333333333%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:177.36720554273%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:87.277353689567%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:105.06666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:176.31578947368%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-9::before{padding-top:100.3125%; }img#mv-trellis-img-9{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-10::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-10{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-11::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-11{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-12::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-12{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p>It&rsquo;s not always easy to get the conversation flowing on the apps, despite the fact that you just matched and therefore must have <em>some <\/em>interest in each other. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/tinder-openers-october-edition\/\">Conversation starters<\/a> are a classic Tinder problem, and questions that seem to come up over and over again are &lsquo;Why are you on Tinder?&rsquo;, &lsquo;What are you looking for on Tinder?&rsquo;, &lsquo;What brings you to Tinder?&rsquo;, etc etc.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I get it, it&rsquo;s pretty tempting to ask. You want to check that your match is on the same page as you, and you want to know whether there&rsquo;s some huge shocking or off-putting event in someone&rsquo;s life that has driven them to the apps. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"421\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CI%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CAsk%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CWhy%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CSomeone%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CIs%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8COn%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CTinder%E2%80%8C-Tinder-App.png\" alt=\"Should&zwnj; &zwnj;I&zwnj; &zwnj;Ask&zwnj; &zwnj;Why&zwnj; &zwnj;Someone&zwnj; &zwnj;Is&zwnj; &zwnj;On&zwnj; &zwnj;Tinder&zwnj; - Tinder App\" class=\"wp-image-22015\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-600x337.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-300x168.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-150x84.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-520x292.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-640x359.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"421\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20750%20421'%3E%3Crect%20width='750'%20height='421'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Should&zwnj; &zwnj;I&zwnj; &zwnj;Ask&zwnj; &zwnj;Why&zwnj; &zwnj;Someone&zwnj; &zwnj;Is&zwnj; &zwnj;On&zwnj; &zwnj;Tinder&zwnj; - Tinder App\" class=\"wp-image-22015 eager-load\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" loading=\"eager\" data-src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App.png\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-600x337.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-300x168.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-150x84.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-480x270.png 480w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-720x405.png 720w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-320x180.png 320w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-735x413.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-335x188.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-347x195.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-520x292.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Tinder-App-640x359.png 640w\" data-svg=\"1\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>But unless they have something significant to say like &lsquo;just finalized my 5th divorce&rsquo;, it can be a pretty boring and slightly invasive question.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are a <a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/why-women-use-tinder\/\">million reasons why someone might be on Tinder<\/a>, but more often than not there&rsquo;s no definitive reason they are! Why are <em>you <\/em>on Tinder? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These days the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessofapps.com\/data\/tinder-statistics\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">majority of people are using dating apps<\/a>, because, well&hellip;that&rsquo;s just how it&rsquo;s done? It&rsquo;s a pretty standard way to kickstart your dating life and meet people.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CI%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CAsk%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CWhy%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CSomeone%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CIs%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8COn%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CTinder%E2%80%8C-Its-A-Match-577x1024.png\" alt=\"Should&zwnj; &zwnj;I&zwnj; &zwnj;Ask&zwnj; &zwnj;Why&zwnj; &zwnj;Someone&zwnj; &zwnj;Is&zwnj; &zwnj;On&zwnj; &zwnj;Tinder&zwnj; - Its A Match\" class=\"wp-image-22014\" width=\"433\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-577x1024.png 577w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-600x1065.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-169x300.png 169w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-85x150.png 85w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-189x335.png 189w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-195x347.png 195w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-293x520.png 293w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-361x640.png 361w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-433x768.png 433w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-541x960.png 541w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match-608x1080.png 608w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Its-A-Match.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 433px) 100vw, 433px\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CI%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CAsk%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CWhy%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CSomeone%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CIs%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8COn%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CTinder%E2%80%8C-Its-A-Match-577x1024.png\" alt=\"Should&zwnj; 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is a bit personal for the beginning of your potentially blossoming relationship, as it easily could relate to things a person wouldn&rsquo;t want to open up about off the bat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be read as &lsquo;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/why-you-shouldnt-ask-someone-why-they-are-single-2018-1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Why are you single<\/a>?&rsquo; or &lsquo;What&rsquo;s wrong with you?&rsquo; There are better and more gentle ways to find out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"exclusive-offers\">\n        <h2>Dude Hack Exclusive Offers<\/h2>\n\n        <ul class=\"exclusive-offers__grid\">\n            <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n           \n                <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anrdoezrs.net\/click-9128028-10880594?sid=exclusive-offer\"><!-- link Serious relationship? -->\n\n                    <p>Serious relationship?<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/untitled-1_325.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/untitled-1_325.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Get Free Trial<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n           <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n\n                <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/tinder-hacked-free\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><!-- link Tinder Hacked -->\n\n                    <p>Tinder<\/p><p> Hacked<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Untitled-design-3.png\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Untitled-design-3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Get Free Ebook<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n            <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n\n                <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/best-dating-app-quiz\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><!-- link Best Dating App? -->\n\n                    <p>Best Dating<\/p><p> App?<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/DATING_APP_ICON_CONSOLIDATED-min.png\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/DATING_APP_ICON_CONSOLIDATED-min.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Take Our Quiz<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n\n           \n        <\/ul>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Is It OK To Ask What Someone Is Looking For On Tinder?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s totally natural to want to know what someone is looking for on Tinder, but is it ok to straight-up ask? Yes and no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&rsquo;re looking for something super specific and really don&rsquo;t want to waste your time on anything else, I can see why you might, but to be totally honest I think there are better ways to find out, or better yet, just try to form a connection and be open about where it might take you!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At the very least save the question for when you have felt some initial connection or spark, since in my experience &lsquo;what are you looking for?&rsquo; can be a little off-putting or uninspired early in a conversation. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CI%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CAsk%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CWhy%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CSomeone%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CIs%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8COn%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CTinder%E2%80%8C-What-Are-You-Looking-For.png\" alt=\"Should&zwnj; &zwnj;I&zwnj; &zwnj;Ask&zwnj; 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&zwnj;I&zwnj; &zwnj;Ask&zwnj; &zwnj;Why&zwnj; &zwnj;Someone&zwnj; &zwnj;Is&zwnj; &zwnj;On&zwnj; &zwnj;Tinder&zwnj; - Relationship or Hookup\" class=\"wp-image-22019 lazyload\" width=\"375\" height=\"394\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-600x630.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-286x300.png 286w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-143x150.png 143w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-735x771.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-319x335.png 319w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-331x347.png 331w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-496x520.png 496w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-610x640.png 610w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup-732x768.png 732w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-Relationship-or-Hookup.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-7\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>You could both be looking for the exact same thing but if the chemistry is off it&rsquo;s irrelevant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If it&rsquo;s really important to you that you guys are on the same wavelength, for example, if you&rsquo;re really only interested in hookups and nothing else, or on the flip side, a serious relationship and nothing else, it&rsquo;s good to put some feelers out before you meet in person.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How Do You Ask Someone What They Want On Tinder?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The best way to match with people looking for the same thing as you is to be upfront about what you want. A good way to avoid awkwardly bringing it up in conversation is to have it in your bio, that way they know what you want and it&rsquo;s safe to assume they&rsquo;re cool with that since they&rsquo;ve matched with you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No one wants to feel like they&rsquo;re being interviewed, so try to keep it casual sounding rather than a straight-up &lsquo;What are you looking for?&rsquo;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Similarly, you want to make sure you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/less-judgemental-online-dating\/1598527\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">don&rsquo;t come across as judgemental<\/a>, so you&rsquo;ll want to be careful with your wording.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"304\" height=\"536\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CI%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CAsk%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CWhy%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CSomeone%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CIs%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8COn%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CTinder%E2%80%8C-what-are-you-looking-for-1.png\" alt=\"Should&zwnj; &zwnj;I&zwnj; &zwnj;Ask&zwnj; &zwnj;Why&zwnj; &zwnj;Someone&zwnj; &zwnj;Is&zwnj; &zwnj;On&zwnj; &zwnj;Tinder&zwnj; - what are you looking for\" class=\"wp-image-22438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1.png 304w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-170x300.png 170w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-85x150.png 85w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-190x335.png 190w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-197x347.png 197w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-295x520.png 295w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 304px) 100vw, 304px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"304\" height=\"536\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CI%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CAsk%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CWhy%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CSomeone%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CIs%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8COn%E2%80%8C-%E2%80%8CTinder%E2%80%8C-what-are-you-looking-for-1.png\" alt=\"Should&zwnj; &zwnj;I&zwnj; &zwnj;Ask&zwnj; &zwnj;Why&zwnj; &zwnj;Someone&zwnj; &zwnj;Is&zwnj; &zwnj;On&zwnj; &zwnj;Tinder&zwnj; - what are you looking for\" class=\"wp-image-22438 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1.png 304w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-170x300.png 170w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-85x150.png 85w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-190x335.png 190w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-197x347.png 197w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1-295x520.png 295w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 304px) 100vw, 304px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Should&zwnj;-&zwnj;I&zwnj;-&zwnj;Ask&zwnj;-&zwnj;Why&zwnj;-&zwnj;Someone&zwnj;-&zwnj;Is&zwnj;-&zwnj;On&zwnj;-&zwnj;Tinder&zwnj;-what-are-you-looking-for-1.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-8\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><strong>Here&rsquo;s an example:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Would you say you&rsquo;re trying to keep your love life pretty casual right now, or are you open to something serious?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Or the reverse:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Would you say you&rsquo;re looking for something serious right now, or are you up for casual relationships too?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These questions are investigative but not judgy and don&rsquo;t make your match feel they have to try and explain themselves. 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question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In case you didn&rsquo;t pick up on it, I don&rsquo;t think asking someone why they&rsquo;re on Tinder is a particularly great question for a new match, and you&rsquo;ll overall get better results if you try and find some common ground and take it from there.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The truth is that the majority of people on Tinder are in the same boat, they might lean towards wanting something in particular but are pretty open to a variety of things from casual to serious.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might match with someone who is mostly into casual dating, but you could be the one to change that! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So it would suck to rule them out before you&rsquo;ve had a chance to see how you get on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"exclusive-offers\">\n        <h2>Dude Hack Exclusive Offers<\/h2>\n\n        <ul class=\"exclusive-offers__grid\">\n            <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n           \n                <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anrdoezrs.net\/click-9128028-10880594?sid=exclusive-offer\"><!-- link Serious relationship? -->\n\n                    <p>Serious relationship?<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/untitled-1_325.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/untitled-1_325.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-10\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Get Free Trial<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n           <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n\n                <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/tinder-hacked-free\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><!-- link Tinder Hacked -->\n\n                    <p>Tinder<\/p><p> Hacked<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Untitled-design-3.png\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Untitled-design-3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-11\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Get Free Ebook<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n            <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n\n                <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/best-dating-app-quiz\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><!-- link Best Dating App? -->\n\n                    <p>Best Dating<\/p><p> App?<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/DATING_APP_ICON_CONSOLIDATED-min.png\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/DATING_APP_ICON_CONSOLIDATED-min.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-12\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Take Our Quiz<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n\n           \n        <\/ul>\n    <\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&rsquo;s not always easy to get the conversation flowing on the apps, despite the fact that you just matched and therefore must have some interest in each other. 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