{"id":22048,"date":"2021-12-14T23:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-14T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/?p=22048"},"modified":"2023-08-05T13:55:39","modified_gmt":"2023-08-05T13:55:39","slug":"dating-advice-digested-men-are-from-mars-women-are-from-venus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/dating-advice-digested-men-are-from-mars-women-are-from-venus\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating Advice Digested: Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:152.57452574526%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-9::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-9{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-10::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-10{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-11::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-11{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-12::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-12{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-13::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-13{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-14::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-14{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-15::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-15{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p><em>Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus <\/em>was the &lsquo;90s dating staple. This is a book that entertains the idea that men and women communicate differently &ndash; the central metaphor? We&rsquo;re from different planets!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&rsquo;re a Millennial you&rsquo;ll probably remember the book being referenced in everything from romcoms to sitcoms. And maybe remember your mom&rsquo;s single friends reading it too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&rsquo;re Gen Z, congrats, you don&rsquo;t even recall a pre-dating-app world. Trust me, it was tough. You had to like&hellip; talk to strangers. And read actual dating advice books on actual paper.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus Book Cover\" class=\"wp-image-22056\" width=\"369\" height=\"563\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover.png 492w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-197x300.png 197w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-98x150.png 98w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-220x335.png 220w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-228x347.png 228w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-341x520.png 341w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-420x640.png 420w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 369px) 100vw, 369px\"><\/noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20369%20563'%3E%3Crect%20width='369'%20height='563'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus Book Cover\" class=\"wp-image-22056 eager-load\" width=\"369\" height=\"563\" sizes=\"(max-width: 369px) 100vw, 369px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" loading=\"eager\" data-src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover.png\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover.png 492w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-197x300.png 197w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-98x150.png 98w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-220x335.png 220w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-228x347.png 228w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-341x520.png 341w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-Book-Cover-420x640.png 420w\" data-svg=\"1\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>&lsquo;What a waste of time! I want my content pre-digested! I just want the good bits!&rsquo; you cry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, then you&rsquo;ve come to the right place.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are what I consider to be the most important stories, takeaways, and messages from the dating book classic <em>Men Are<\/em> <em>From Mars, Women<\/em> <em>Are From Venus<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"exclusive-offers\">\n        <h2>Dude Hack Exclusive Offers<\/h2>\n\n        <ul class=\"exclusive-offers__grid\">\n            <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n           \n                <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anrdoezrs.net\/click-9128028-10880594?sid=exclusive-offer\"><!-- link Serious relationship? -->\n\n                    <p>Serious relationship?<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/untitled-1_325.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/untitled-1_325.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Get Free Trial<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n           <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n\n                <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/tinder-hacked-free\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><!-- link Tinder Hacked -->\n\n                    <p>Tinder<\/p><p> Hacked<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Untitled-design-3.png\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Untitled-design-3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Get Free Ebook<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n            <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n\n                <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/best-dating-app-quiz\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><!-- link Best Dating App? -->\n\n                    <p>Best Dating<\/p><p> App?<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/DATING_APP_ICON_CONSOLIDATED-min.png\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/DATING_APP_ICON_CONSOLIDATED-min.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Take Our Quiz<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n\n           \n        <\/ul>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Is The Book About?&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>As discussed, this dating guide has a quirky premise. And yet, <em>Men Are<\/em> <em>From Mars, Women Are From Venus<\/em> gives some good advice on how to deal with communication when you and your partner have different ways of communicating. It also encourages its readers to listen to one another, which can&rsquo;t be a bad thing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Martians, apparently, spied the Venetians one day and just had to go get them. And there, the book begins! These mismatched beings must learn to communicate. But it is going to take some work!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - couple at the park\" class=\"wp-image-22050\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - couple at the park\" class=\"wp-image-22050 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-park.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" loading=\"lazy\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Perhaps it isn&rsquo;t the most sensitive way to view human coupling up, but author John Gray manages some nuggets of truth (and some decent advice) in his space-age tale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The book was aimed at Gen X daters in their late 20s and 30s, and took the world by storm upon publication in 1992. It was so popular that Bridget Jones carried it around with her, in fact. And she snagged Colin Firth, so she must have been doing something right.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dating Lesson One: Communication Styles Differ<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This book takes its central metaphor seriously. Men are Martians, women are Venusians.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&rsquo;s pretty wild.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, John Gray makes some widely interesting points with it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One paragraph reads:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&lsquo;Martians value power, competency, efficiency, and achievement. They are always doing things to prove themselves and develop their power and skills. Their sense of self is defined through their ability to achieve results. They experience fulfillment primarily through success and accomplishment.&rsquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The moral of this? Basically, men try to fix problems while women want to just talk them out.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - romantic couple\" class=\"wp-image-22053\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - romantic couple\" class=\"wp-image-22053 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-romantic-couple.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-6\" loading=\"lazy\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>While there are deeply gendered assumptions here, and of course the way boys and girls are raised plays into this, there is some central truth to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can&rsquo;t count the number of times a girlfriend has told me to stop offering solutions and just listen! And I&rsquo;m a pretty emotionally intelligent guy. I mean, my job is literally all about how to date and not be an asshole! And yet&hellip; I guess I&rsquo;m still a Martian.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3aafa9\" class=\"has-inline-color\">What Does This Mean?<\/mark><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are a Martian (read: a dude) then try to spend more time just listening. Just chatting. In fact, this probably isn&rsquo;t a solid gender binary thing. And there is never a wrong time to slow down, listen, ask what your partner needs from you if you are unsure.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3aafa9\" class=\"has-inline-color\">How To Apply This Dating Advice<\/mark><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&rsquo;re on a date? Don&rsquo;t monopolize the conversation. Don&rsquo;t assume your date needs your help. They did just fine without you until&hellip; well&hellip; just now. And if you don&rsquo;t usually take the reigns? Maybe you should. You can come with some conversation ideas, or <a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/how-to-make-a-romantic-evening-for-him\/\">plan a great date night<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dating Lesson Two: Rubber Bands And Caves<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Okay&hellip; did this book invent the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vox.com\/the-goods\/2019\/3\/4\/18246518\/man-cave-boom-pre-recession-masculinity-male-friendship\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">tradition of the man cave<\/a>?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember all the &lsquo;rubber band&rsquo; stuff from, I dunno, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.harpersbazaar.com\/uk\/culture\/a21093577\/sex-and-the-city-what-it-got-right-vs-what-it-really-didnt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Sex, and the City<\/a> or Ally McBeal or something. It was big in the &rsquo;90s. But the man cave part of it all, I had totally forgotten.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I&rsquo;ll backtrack. What are rubber bands and what are caves? I mean, what are they in the context of <em>Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - man alone time\" class=\"wp-image-22054\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - man alone time\" class=\"wp-image-22054 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-man-alone-time.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-7\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, the &lsquo;man cave&rsquo; foundations are a little&hellip; dated. The idea is summed up like this: Men become withdrawn when they are stressed and need a &lsquo;cave&rsquo;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women become emotional and need to vent. As a result of this, men think women talk too much. This is elucidated by several stories about couples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On top of this, men apparently act like &lsquo;rubber bands&rsquo;. They get close, and then they have to pull away.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This might be true (if we lean into gender norms) but it certainly has a lot more to do with socialization than innate characteristics.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - arguing couple\" class=\"wp-image-22057\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - arguing couple\" class=\"wp-image-22057 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-arguing-couple.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-8\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Anyway, when the rubber band pings a man wants to get back to his cave. Women should understand this and make time for it. Men should, arguably, fight it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3aafa9\" class=\"has-inline-color\">What Does This Mean?<\/mark><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically, John Gray is telling us that different people have different communication styles. Remove the slightly problematic gender assumptions and it is a solid observation that could help you in your dating life, but also with friendships, at work, and dealing with difficult family members around the holiday dinner table.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3aafa9\" class=\"has-inline-color\">How To Apply This Dating Advice<\/mark><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I am not 100% behind the concepts here. But, that being said, the lesson is pretty clear. Adapt to your partner&rsquo;s communication style. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - talking couple\" class=\"wp-image-22052\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - talking couple\" class=\"wp-image-22052 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-talking-couple.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-9\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Try to understand how they think. If they need space, give it to them. If they deal with being uncomfortable by joking, let that ride. And tbh, that can be relevant even in the early dating stage.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dating Lesson Three: 101 Ways To Score Points With A Woman<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Yeah, this one is exactly what it sounds like. And it is some 101-level dating advice if you ask me.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It isn&rsquo;t that the advice itself is terrible, more just that most of it is quite basic and the format of a list seems lazy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tips include:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Opening doors for her<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Practice asking questions<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - happy couple\" class=\"wp-image-22055\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - happy couple\" class=\"wp-image-22055 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-happy-couple.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-10\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Plan a date several days in advance, rather than waiting for Friday night and asking her what she wants to do<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Compliment her appearance<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically, they will either look like you&rsquo;re trying too hard or being patronizing or else they boil down to &lsquo;communicate and be an adult&rsquo;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3aafa9\" class=\"has-inline-color\">What Does It Mean?<\/mark><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It is essentially tips and tricks for being thoughtful. Planning a date in advance and making sure it is something she wants to do, for example, is a nice thing to do (and if you need help, <a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/budget-date-night-ideas\/\">I have ideas for all budgets<\/a>)! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thinking of questions ahead of time for a first date is also a good idea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3aafa9\" class=\"has-inline-color\">How To Apply This Dating Advice<\/mark><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Carefully. I mean, there is some pretty good advice in here but ticking off a list to make a woman happy isn&rsquo;t a great idea. Take the pieces of advice individually, and apply the ones that seem to fit with your date where you can. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&rsquo;t say, &lsquo;I have this list of ways to make you happy, and it said to compliment you, so I guess&hellip; nice shoes?&rsquo;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dating Lesson Four: Write Down Your Feelings<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There are exercises!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have to say, these are actually quite good.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of my favorites is love letters. The twist? They&rsquo;re not positive &ndash; or not totally positive &ndash; they&rsquo;re honest.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The idea is that you will be able to communicate better and think over what you want to say, if you write a letter to your significant other. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - writing your feelings\" class=\"wp-image-22051\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - writing your feelings\" class=\"wp-image-22051 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-writing-your-feelings.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-11\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>So, instead of having an argument, you can lay out your issues carefully on paper and they can respond to them the same way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The book advises using to layout your feelings and frustrations, but also sincerely tell the other person how much you value the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then the hard part: wait for a response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3aafa9\" class=\"has-inline-color\">How to Apply This Dating Advice<\/mark><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&rsquo;s be honest, we can do this with Whatsapp messages these days. But taking time is key, and typing out something substantial in say a Google doc should allow you that time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It will take a discussion afterward, but this is actually a really good cooling down and discussion technique.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Main Dating Advice in Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>LISTEN!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&rsquo;re a regular Dude Hack reader or watcher, you&rsquo;ll know I agree with this crucial bit of dating advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Listen to what your date, or partner, wants and needs. Be yourselves. Communicate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe it&rsquo;s a 1992 thing, but John Gray, author of <em>Men Are From Mars<\/em> (who apparently has a Ph.D.) didn&rsquo;t learn this until he was straight-up married with a kid. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His wife, having just given birth, needed painkillers (honestly he goes into the why of this a bit too much in the literal first paragraph of the intro) and he gets mad she didn&rsquo;t call him in the office.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No texting, remember, it&rsquo;s 1992!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - couple at the beach\" class=\"wp-image-22049\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach.png\" alt=\"Dating Advice Digested Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus - couple at the beach\" class=\"wp-image-22049 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach.png 750w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-600x400.png 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-735x490.png 735w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-335x223.png 335w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-347x231.png 347w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-520x347.png 520w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach-640x427.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Dating-Advice-Digested-Men-are-From-Mars-Women-are-From-Venus-couple-at-the-beach.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-12\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Anyway, his wife, Bonnie, tells him she needs him and needs him to listen to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most people should probably learn this lesson before they&rsquo;re married with kids. But better late than never, I guess?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I imagine Bonnie may have mentioned it once or twice before though, to be honest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Guys&hellip; be better than John Gray. That&rsquo;s the real lesson from Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. To be fair, he was on the dating scene a long time before dating apps. 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