{"id":4015,"date":"2020-08-21T05:01:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-21T05:01:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/?p=4015"},"modified":"2024-03-19T02:31:27","modified_gmt":"2024-03-19T02:31:27","slug":"meeting-girl-first-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/meeting-girl-first-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Meeting A Girl For The First Time In Person (From Tinder) &#038; What To Say"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:64%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:66.6%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}<\/style>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What To Do When Meeting Your Tinder Match For The First Time<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So you sent a smooth <a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/60openers\/\">opener<\/a>, the conversation flows like a river and the time feels right as ever, so you cross your fingers and <a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/time-to-ask-match-out\">ask your match out<\/a>, and voil&agrave;, she says yes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then&hellip; the sweet taste of victory is abolished by a sinking feeling in your stomach because now you have to get through the awkwardness of meeting a girl from Tinder for the first time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meeting a girl from Tinder for the first time is different for everyone. Some of you may feel some butterflies right before meeting <em>or<\/em> you may lose sleep in the preceding days. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No matter who you are, please remember that it&rsquo;s completely <a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/face-rejection-tinder\/\">normal to feel nervous<\/a>! It means you care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/what-are-you-looking-for-on-tinder\/\"><strong>Related: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">What Are You Looking For On Tinder? How To Answer This Tricky Question&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With that being said, we guys definitely don&rsquo;t want to show our match that we are feeling panicky, so let&rsquo;s take a look at a series of different tips to ensure you are making a great first impression the first time meeting a girl from Tinder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before we get into it, if you are wondering where you should take your Tinder date, check out <a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/first-tinder-date-ideas\/\">7 First Tinder Date Ideas.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"exclusive-offers\">\n        <h2>Dude Hack Exclusive Offers<\/h2>\n\n        <ul class=\"exclusive-offers__grid\">\n            <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n           \n                <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anrdoezrs.net\/click-9128028-10880594?sid=exclusive-offer\"><!-- link Serious relationship? -->\n\n                    <p>Serious relationship?<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/untitled-1_325.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" loading=\"eager\" data-src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/untitled-1_325.jpg\" class=\"eager-load\" data-svg=\"1\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Get Free Trial<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n           <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n\n                <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/tinder-hacked-free\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><!-- link Tinder Hacked -->\n\n                    <p>Tinder<\/p><p> Hacked<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Untitled-design-3.png\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Untitled-design-3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Get Free Ebook<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n            <li class=\"exclusive-offers__grid-item\">\n\n                <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/best-dating-app-quiz\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><!-- link Best Dating App? -->\n\n                    <p>Best Dating<\/p><p> App?<\/p>\n                    <noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/DATING_APP_ICON_CONSOLIDATED-min.png\" alt=\"\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/DATING_APP_ICON_CONSOLIDATED-min.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">\n                    <span>Take Our Quiz<\/span>\n                <\/a>\n            <\/li>\n\n           \n        <\/ul>\n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Before Meeting A Girl From Tinder For The First Time<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"color: #ff574f;\">Search For Conversation Ammo <\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The best way to prepare for your <a href=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/first-tinder-date-ideas\/\">Tinder date<\/a> is to read back over all messages between you and your match. Read them twice, three times, 10 if you need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The more, the merrier. This will allow you to collect really important &ldquo;ammo&rdquo;, or conversation starters for when your date arrives so that you can be beaming with confidence and have material to talk about throughout the date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&rsquo;s have a look at how exactly to do this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Scour through the messages in search of topics that are interesting or funny. Funny components of the conversation are fantastic to use for your introduction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your match and you might have been joking around about something in particular, or been talking about a specific topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you bring something like this up within the first few minutes of meeting face-to-face, her nerves have a way better chance of subsiding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is because it shows you have been listening, but more importantly, she doesn&rsquo;t actually know this guy in front of her yet, she knows the guy she was messaging on Tinder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So when you bring out a specific example from your conversation, any tension will immediately be diffused.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/adult-affection-beard-842546-1.jpg\" alt=\"Meeting A Girl From Tinder For The First Time? 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Some say people will formulate their first impression of you within the first 5 seconds of meeting you, others say 60 seconds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Regardless, this means that these first few moments of actually meeting a Tinder girl for the first time are very important. Let&rsquo;s take a look at a few ways you can make a great first impression with your Tinder date, no matter where you are meeting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Smile<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We want to give off a friendly, harmless and confident vibe, especially within that first couple of minutes of meeting&nbsp;her. Plus, smiling is contagious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Helping your match achieve a genuine smile within the first minute of meeting them can help diffuse the tension greatly. It has also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/better\/health\/smiling-can-trick-your-brain-happiness-boost-your-health-ncna822591\">been proven<\/a> that smiling, forced or not, can lift your mood and lower stress, something that will definitely get the first date started on the right note.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Eye Contact<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>What&rsquo;s even better than just the smile, is also<a href=\"https:\/\/markmanson.net\/the-levels-of-eye-contact\"> locking her gaze<\/a>. This little mannerism screams &ldquo;I find you attractive&rdquo; and can help create that warm fuzzy feeling from the get-go. Don&rsquo;t look away when she locks eyes with you either, hold it and keep smiling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don&rsquo;t want to go overboard with the eye contact so you give off a crazy vibe though, the sweet spot is around <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wsj.com\/articles\/SB10001424127887324809804578511290822228174\">7 to 10 seconds at a time<\/a>. It gives off the vibe that you are exceptionally confident in a completely non-arrogant way, helping your date to feel at ease as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Say Her Name<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Have you ever been in a conversation and then all of a sudden hear someone close by mention your name, so you put your current conversation to a halt just to hear what that other person is saying?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is because your ears are conditioned to hear your name and be drawn to it. It&rsquo;s your tag that has been with you since birth. Another thing you are conditioned to feel when you hear your name is familiarity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Subconsciously, when someone says your name, you recognize them as being someone who <em>knows <\/em>you. So, when you greet a Tinder girl for the first time in person, it&rsquo;s so important to say her name. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This will put her in a relaxed state and feel like you aren&rsquo;t a complete stranger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doing all three of the above when you meet someone from Tinder for the first time is the best way to make a great first impression. Especially if you do only have 5 seconds to do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Whilst On Your First Tinder Date<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Chivalry<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Chivalry is still going strong! But it has changed&hellip;I&rsquo;m not talking about pulling out her seat for her and acting like we are living in the 1920s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But whilst treating her as an equal, showing a little bit of chivalry definitely cannot hurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, letting your date enter or exit first, holding the door open for her, and generally just making a little bit of effort is perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember though, being a nice guy doesn&rsquo;t miraculously mean you get anything in return or deserve anything for that matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&rsquo;t do it in a way to expect anything in return, simply being a kind and well-mannered guy will definitely impress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Liquid Confidence<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Alcohol can be good for your first date, but it can also be terrible. If you have some nerves, taking the edge off with a drink or two can definitely help you get over that bundle of nerves in your stomach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Especially if the two of you are having drinks together, and therefore going at the same pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the flip side, don&rsquo;t drink too much. You probably know why. First dates are all about first impressions so don&rsquo;t overdo it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am not condoning drinking alcohol if it&rsquo;s not something you generally do, but if you do, one or two can help get rid of any awkward tension for the two of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">After Meeting Your Tinder Date For The First Time<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Paying The Bill<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I&rsquo;m definitely not going to tell you to pay for your date if you guys decide to go out for dinner and\/or drinks. Times have changed, and it is no longer completely expected from the guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With that being said, I personally do pay on the first date. If you decide to split the bill, that&rsquo;s fine, but if you seem like you care too much about being reimbursed accurately, you run the risk of her thinking you are a cheapskate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So&hellip; If you are out to dinner and do decide to pay, here&rsquo;s a nice little tip for you. Go to the bathroom after you have ordered everything you are going to for the night and on your way back, ask to pay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She might think you&rsquo;ve taken a little longer in the bathroom, but it looks pretty damn smooth when you get up at the end and admit you&rsquo;ve already paid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I generally like to just casually walk off until she says, &ldquo;But we have to pay!&rdquo; and then tell her I have already.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Going Back To Yours (Or Hers)&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&rsquo;t assume a thing. Just because you followed every bit of advice and paid for an awesome dinner for the two of you it does not mean you are going to get laid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is really no one-size-fits-all advice for this topic, it really depends on your match, and you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She might want to go to yours for a nightcap, she may want to head home. Does that mean things went bad if she doesn&rsquo;t want to sleep with you? No way! She might really like you but still not want to go home for multiple reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust me, a first date without anything physical doesn&rsquo;t mean that there won&rsquo;t be a second date. I&rsquo;ve personally seen great relationships initiated after a first date where there wasn&rsquo;t even a kiss!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It really depends on the vibe you&rsquo;re feeling at the end of the date. Also remember, asking your date if she would like to come back to your place for a drink or to watch a movie doesn&rsquo;t have to sound sleazy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do not be afraid of rejection at this point if you do want to ask.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you ask in a casual and confident way but she doesn&rsquo;t want to, she will not think you&rsquo;re a sleazebag after some action, you are just someone confident enough to ask.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If she declines your offer, don&rsquo;t show disappointment or try making excuses for why you asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just smile and tell her you understand, and that you had fun tonight, and that you&rsquo;ll catch up again\/talk soon.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"666\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1.jpg\" alt=\"meeting A Tinder Girl For The First Time\" class=\"wp-image-4025\" style=\"width:750px;height:500px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-980x653.jpg 980w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-480x320.jpg 480w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-510x340.jpg 510w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"666\" src=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1.jpg\" alt=\"meeting A Tinder Girl For The First Time\" class=\"wp-image-4025 lazyload\" style=\"width:750px;height:500px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-980x653.jpg 980w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-480x320.jpg 480w, https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1-510x340.jpg 510w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/dude-hack.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" loading=\"lazy\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>There you have it folks, some simple, straightforward, and hopefully helpful tips for meeting a Tinder match for the first time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My last little tip is to try not to overthink anything I&rsquo;ve just explained. 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