Why You Should Use Tinder
I’m sure if you’ve reached this point you don’t need too much convincing why you should be giving Tinder a go. Yet, I still feel it’s important to make clear the reasons why I believe you should try it out.
The main point for everything I do, believe it or not, is not to help guys get laid and have meaningless dates.
Of course what this comes down to is meeting someone special. But to zoom out just a little, what I hope for all of you to achieve from getting better at Tinder is improving your own self-belief and confidence.
Look, let’s be honest, a lot of people out there are going to struggle to see the link between using tinder, and achieving more confidence. I don’t blame you.
How is it that this “hookup app” could now be used to make meaningful connections or overcome self-doubt?
Why You Should Use Tinder: Ease Into It
I don’t know about you, but I’ve seen the “pickup artists” out there that secretly film getting girls numbers. First of all this is damn creepy, but the thing that really annoys me about these videos, is how little you actually learn.
These egomaniac pickup artists get their kicks out of showing off their own skills, so that you keep watching, rather than teaching you how to do it yourself.
So many of my clients have told me that after watching something like this, they actually feel worse. This is because you are watching someone get a number quite easily, you have no idea why or how, but worst of all, the thought of you walking straight up to a woman to “pick her up” makes you very anxious.
So to answer your question: Why Tinder? The answer is simple. It is a perfect platform for anyone to learn. We are simply dipping our toes in, testing the water, and seeing if we do in fact want to keep swimming. We are easing into it slowly.
I’m not trying to show off my skills and then tell you to just walk up to a girl on the street and copy it. No, I’m giving you are more realistic approach.
Would you prefer to be stumped on what to say, in front of a woman’s face, or whilst texting her on Tinder?
If you have ever suffered from any form of social anxiety, get a bit awkward or have been out of the dating game for a long time, then an easy transition into talking to women, is sometimes the best way to go.
Yes, we will ease into things slow, but I definitely want to help you reach that point where walking straight up to any woman with confidence, is a simple task.
If you are still unsure about whether Tinder is right for you or not, go ahead and check out a recent article I did on the best dating apps going in 2019.