All of us have had conversations that seem to be going well, then all of a sudden… no reply. It’s an issue a lot of my clients face when first starting out on their Tinder journey. It’s because when they actually start to have a really good conversation, they get too excited. That excitement can sometimes translate through into the messages they are sending, and unfortunately, it’s quite easy to be confused with desperation or neediness. So when is the best time to end your Tinder conversation?
Ending Your Tinder Conversation When Things Are At Their Peak
It sounds a little backward, doesn’t it? I’m telling you that when you’ve got a great conversation going to end it. That’s right. I am telling you to put a halt to that conversation you’ve been having with that babe for the last couple of hours. If you want to talk to her again tomorrow that is…
Ending Your Tinder Conversation When Things Aren’t Flowing
This is much better to do even if you really want to keep talking, as she will appreciate the fact that you’ve sensed she might be starting to get tired of talking. You have a way better chance of getting a response tomorrow if you restart the conversation then, compared to if you were going to keep trying to move the conversation along now.
How Can You Tell It’s Time To Wrap Things Up?
The reason I suggest this is it’s getting late anyway or things will probably wrap up soon. So why not go out with a bang? Remember, we want her last memory of you to be of an effortless conversation. It’s unfortunate that so many guys ruin their chances with someone that they seem to have a real connection with, just because they let that conversation tiptoe into the field of boring for a second. Stay on your toes, and end the convo when need be.
Slowly you will start picking up on the right timing, and it won’t be something you will have to think about at all. This really isn’t something you should stress about if you’re really unsure how to pick up on these cues. It’s something to be aware of, but it’s not going to be the end of the world. Try not to do this too often or go overboard with it, because on the other side of the coin, your match will think it’s strange you’re only popping up every now and then for short periods before disappearing again.
Check out our roadmap of 5 unknown ways to get more matches. Because you need matches to get into the conversations in the first place!