What To Do When Meeting Your Tinder Match For The First Time
Meeting a girl from Tinder for the first time is different for everyone. Some of you may feel some butterflies right before meeting or you may lose sleep in the preceding days. No matter who you are, please remember that it’s completely normal to feel nerves! It means you care.
With that being said, us guys definitely don’t want to show our match that we are feeling panicky, so let’s take a look at a series of different tips to ensure you are making a great first impression the first time meeting a girl from Tinder. Before we get into it, if you are wondering where you should take your Tinder date, check out 7 First Tinder Date Ideas.
Before Meeting A Girl From Tinder For The First Time
Search For Conversation Ammo
Scour through the messages in search of topics that are interesting or funny. Funny components of the conversation are fantastic to use for your introduction. Your match and you might have been joking around about something in particular, or been talking about a specific topic. If you bring something like this up within the first few minutes of meeting face to face, her nerves have a way better chances of subsiding. This is because it shows you have been listening, but more importantly, she doesn’t actually know this guy in front of her yet, she knows the guy she was messaging on Tinder. So when you bring out a specific example from your conversation, any tension will immediately be diffused.
When You Are Greeting A Tinder Girl For The First Time
Say Her Name
Doing all three of the above when you meet someone from Tinder for the first time is the best way to make a great first impression. Especially if you do only have 5 seconds to do so.
Whilst On Your First Tinder Date
Remember though, being a nice guy doesn’t miraculously mean you get sex, or deserve anything for that matter. Don’t do it in a way to expect anything in return, simply being a kind and well-mannered guy will definitely impress.
After Meeting Your Tinder Date For The First Time
Paying The Bill
So… If you are out to dinner and do decide to pay, here’s a nice little tip for you. Go to the bathroom after you have ordered everything you are going to for the night and on your way back, ask to pay. She might think you’ve taken a little longer in the bathroom, but it looks pretty damn smooth when you get up at the end and admit you’ve already paid. I generally like to just casually walk off until she says, “but we have to pay!” and then tell her I have already.
Going Back To Yours (Or Hers)
Trust me, a first date without anything physical doesn’t mean that there won’t be a second date. I’ve personally seen great relationships initiated after a first date where there wasn’t even a kiss!
It really depends on the vibe you’re feeling at the end of the date. Also remember, asking your date if she would like to come back to your place for a drink or to watch a movie doesn’t have to sound sleazy. Do not be afraid of rejection at this point if you do want to ask. If you ask in a casual and confident way but she doesn’t want to, she will not think you’re a sleazebag after sex, you are just someone confident enough to ask. If she declines your offer, don’t show disappointment or try making excuses for why you asked. Just smile and tell her you understand, and that you had fun tonight and that you’ll catch up again/talk soon.
If you need the matches first to even start considering getting a date, make sure you check out the 5 unknown ways to get more matches