If you’ve ever watched the show Catfish, you’re probably full of skepticism when it comes to any form of online dating. That’s completely fair. Sure, you’re on Tinder to meet someone special, chat with some cool people or maybe just have some casual fun, but the most important thing is looking out for numero uno (yourself).
Unfortunately, on any online dating site, you are going to come across fake profiles. It’s just a part of being online these days. But before we get into all the details, I just want to tell you, that you really shouldn’t worry too much.
If you have your wits about you, read the rest of this article and aren’t the most gullible person in the world, there’s absolutely no reason to be paranoid. With that being said, there are definitely fake profiles out there with malicious intentions trying to take advantage of you.
On that note, let’s take a look at the telltale signs of how to spot them so you can avoid any fake Tinder profiles you happen to come across.
Types of Fake Profiles
Generally, you could categorize any profiles that aren’t the person they claim to be into 4 different categories.
Bot: Out of all the fake Tinder profiles out there, bots are the most common. A Tinder bot is a computer program used to message you on Tinder trying to trick you into thinking they are a real person.
Most of the time they will automatically send a few messages followed by a dangerous link. Sometimes they will try to be a little smarter, using predicted responses based on keywords you’ve used in your messages, to replicate a more back and forth conversation. Bots may be the most common, but they are also by far the easiest to spot.
Human controlled fake profile with an agenda: This one will be a lot harder to catch out because there will be an actual human controlling the messages. This will be someone trying to push a certain agenda, whether that’s a service, product or scam.
Lonely Catfish: This one is a little more on the sad side. Basically, this would be someone who might be lonely, and obviously quite self-conscious, and just wants to chat.
It’s not very dangerous in the essence of immediate impact, but if you haven’t seen the show or movie Catfish then you don’t know how these lying people can mess with other people’s lives’!
Dangerous Catfish: This one is the most messed up. I definitely don’t want to scare you away from using Tinder, but it’s important to address. This would be someone pretending to be someone else; trying to plan a meet up with god knows what intentions.
What a Fake Tinder Profile Wants With You
How to Tell if a Tinder Profile is Fake
Their profile is hiding their distance and/or age: sure, this can be completely normal for some, but if this is yet another thing missing from their profile, you may be dealing with a bot or someone located overseas ready to scam you.
Their profile is overly sexual: if their Tinder photos look like a pre-scene photo-shoot from Brazzers, chances are the profile’s fake.
Rules to Avoid Being Duped by a Fake Tinder Profile
Some of the above seem incredibly obvious, and if you are at least semi Internet literate, you should be able to avoid all fake Tinder profiles. Although, every now and then some do slip through the cracks and you will find yourself talking to a bot, catfish or scammer.
The important thing is that even if this happens, that you don’t follow through with what they are trying to achieve. I mean, it’s harmless to receive a couple of messages from a bot, but not so harmless when you have malware hacking your device.
So it’s imperative that you follow these rules at all times to avoid being duped by one of these fake Tinder profiles.
Never click any random links sent to you: this is how these fake profiles will be able to upload harmful malware onto your device, which could cause irreparable damage.
Don’t ever give money to anyone on any online dating site: no matter how much you might feel you trust this person, or what the reason may be for sending this money, you are not going to be the smooth knight in shining armor, you will be on the receiving end of a scam.
Never give personal details to anyone: I think this is an obvious one, but you’d be surprised. If for whatever reason you’ve ignored my above advice and end up on a website from a link your match has sent, do not enter credit card details (or any details from that matter) anywhere.
No matter how legit it might feel, your info could be subject to identity theft, putting you in a world of trouble.
If you have any suspicions, search your matches pictures in Google: These days it’s so easy to search an actual image to see if it has been taken from another location on the web. You can do this in Google images using the icon highlighted below.
How to Verify a Tinder Profile
Ask to see their social media accounts: If their Instagram is attached to their profile and not private, you don’t even need to ask. Make sure you look at how long they have been active on Instagram and how many followers they have. It might be a little fishy if they have few followers and only started their account a week ago.
With Facebook, most scammers or other profiles probably won’t give it to you. If they say they don’t actually have Facebook, they are full of crap, because you need a Facebook account to set up Tinder. Any avoidance of showing you an established social media account that has been going for more than a month or two should be a major red flag.
Ask for their Snapchat: The reason this can easily be a way to verify the identity of your match is that they can send you a picture in real time. It tells you when a photo has been sent from their camera roll rather than taken live.
FaceTime or Skype: If you’re still really unsure, to be pretty much 100% you could ask to FaceTime or Skype. If they appear to be making excuses like their webcam is broken – red flag.
How to Report a Fake Tinder Profile
- Press the red flag in the top right corner
- Press ‘feels like spam’
Known Tinder Scams
In 2016 a scam was floating around Tinder asking users to verify their identity, which I find kind of ironic now. A bot would start sending flirty messages and then quite soon into the conversation ask their match to verify their identity by clicking a link.
The bot would send a message along the lines of “verify yourself before I meet you so I know you are who you say lol.” The link would direct the user to a site called “Tinder Safe Dating.”
Long story short, the site would trick the user into giving up their credit card details, and then subsequently use those details to join a series of free trials to porn sites.
Those free trials turned into paid subscriptions if the user didn’t catch on and cancel them before the trial ended, charging their credit card roughly US$120 per month.
This scam hasn’t been around for a long time now, but it just gives you an idea of the lengths people go to and the intricate detail that can be involved in these scams.
Good News About Tinder Bots and Fake Profiles
The good news is Tinder is constantly spending the big bucks to ensure spam and scams stay off your swiping screen. I can tell you with confidence that we have moved past the worst years of fake Tinder profiles.
Sure, some might pop up now and then, but Tinder is more vigilant than ever to take any of these fake profiles down before they can cause too much damage.
And to be honest guys, if you keep some common sense and trust your gut, you really shouldn’t find yourself getting scammed by anyone. If you are ready to avoid the fake profiles and get some real matches, check out my free list of 50 amazing bios for you to copy.