Compliments To Give On Tinder

It is often up for debate whether or not you should give compliments on Tinder. Some swear against it, some say that compliments are great. Tinder even suggests complimenting a new match:

new match screen, right before sending first message. Tinder giving suggestion of "give them a compliment and watch what happens"

But I’m here to tell you what sort of compliments you should and definitely SHOULDN’T give.

What Tinder Compliments Should You Avoid?

It’s simple really. Any compliment made about her APPEARANCE… is a no-no. There is staggering evidence that backs up this claim, no matter how tame the compliment.

You have both already swiped right to each other, already implying you are both attracted to each other, so why feel the need to tell her? This is your chance to get to know her beyond her looks.

Related: Step-By-Step Roadmap To Getting Dates On Tinder

If you need any more reason than that, recent studies concluded that some of the WORST 5 words at getting a response were: pretty, gorgeous, cute, beautiful or sexy. The last is a little more obvious…

But what jumps out especially about the others, is that women must get these “tame compliments” a lot. More like LAME compliments…

So even if you think you will sound super sweet complimenting her pretty eyes or nice smile, she’s heard it before…

On top of that, physical compliments could send off the biggest sirens of all. That you’re just keen on getting laid. Show that you are interested in something other than just her tits.

How To Compliment A Girl On Tinder

Yes, you heard me. Don’t sweat it dude, you CAN compliment your match, the secret is… Just not about her appearance!

The same study mentioned above, also concluded that words used in the opener that got GREAT response rates were: Awesome and fascinating.

Related: When To End Your Tinder Conversation At The Right Time

This means complimenting things other than just your match’s physical features is a big YES. Whether it’s complimenting her photos, something witty in her bio, an interest you both share, the list is endless.

If you are still unsure of the way to go about it, check out this video I made on the subject:

If you are interested in learning about how to become a hell of a lot more successful on Tinder, it all starts with your profile, a big part of that being your bio. So if you want to stand out from the crowd make sure you check out my free list of 50 awesome Tinder bios that you can copy.

 

Pin It on Pinterest