What is an online dating empty profile?
If you have kept up with any of Dude Hack’s previous advice, you would know that personalizing your online dating icebreakers is the best way to go to get a reply. But, if her online dating profile is blank, how do you possibly go about personalizing your first message? That’s a great question…
But first, let’s look at why you would actually want to start a conversation with a girl online if her profile is empty.
Why would you want to message a Tinder blank profile?
So for this post, you may be wondering “why should I go to so much effort if she hasn’t?” And I completely understand that! This article is for when you come across someone that is ‘just your type’ and you cannot help yourself to want to match with them! So let’s get into it.
How to start a conversation online with a Tinder profile that’s blank
There are quite a few ways to go about your online dating first message, even if it is a profile that’s blank.
Let’s take a look at a few different ways you can do so, and make sure you read to the end to find out how you can personalize your first Tinder message to a blank profile.
Random vs Personalized To Message A Girl’s Blank Profile
You might want to do this when you are absolutely stumped on what to say to your match, you are in a rush, or feeling particularly lazy that day!
That means no hey’s, hi’s or hello’s. Your match has seen it all before. And I’m sure I don’t need to tell you about why being like every single other person is a bad idea.
I love the WWE, so here’s the GIPHY I have just found of Vince Mcmahon:
Think about your match, their age, any other obvious factors, and a topic that she would definitely know about. Usually, a question that gives two outcomes is the most effective.
If your match sees her first opening Tinder line is “What’s something interesting about you?” She may think it’s a little bit too much effort to come up with a response to that, especially when she hasn’t gotten a feel for who you are yet.
Asking a simple, fun and almost “cute” question definitely increases your chances of a response over all the hey’s, and what’s up’s she’s receiving.
Here are some online dating first message examples:
Lion King or Mulan?
Would you rather be invisible or able to read minds?
Nickelodeon or Disney Channel
For a first message to be personalized, it needs to meet these two criteria points:
- You looked at their profile for inspiration before formulating your opening line
- You couldn’t/wouldn’t send that opening line to ANYONE
What I mean by that, is if you looked at a matches profile, saw she likes…Llamas, well it would be fitting to send a GIPH of a llama. But her profile had no mention of Llamas, well then this GIPH IS NOT personalized. Simple as that! Let’s look at some examples.
For now… let’s move onto the good stuff.
So how do we personalize an opener for a blank profile? We acknowledge the fact that it’s blank!!
You might be wondering what exactly I mean by this. Maybe the best thing to do in this scenario is to give you some examples.
Something I mention in the course is the fact that so many guys think sending a simple hey or hello is the “safe” option. That’s crap. Honestly dude, give it a go, what’s the worst that can happen? If you are freaking out a little about showing some colour in your opener, especially when your match doesn’t know you yet, check this article out which implores you to look at rejection in a different way: